Author: Jonas Cohonas
Date: 12:37:30 04/11/01
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On April 11, 2001 at 13:49:29, Eran wrote: >On April 11, 2001 at 13:05:44, Jonas Cohonas wrote: > >>On April 11, 2001 at 12:22:31, Marcus Kaestner wrote: >> >>>> >>>>What ever happened to common courtesy, why is it so hard for some people here in >>>>this forum to speak to eachother in a proper and friendly fashion, would it kill >>>>you to be nice?? I for one are getteng tired of personal attack after personal >>>>attack, what is there to be taken personally, this is a message board!! >>>>for crying out loud. >>>>I enjoy this forum and come here every day, but whenever i see these attacks >>>>i shake my head and hope for better times, and when the subject does not tell me >>>>that this is one of those threads, then i can't just not read it! >>>> >>>> >>>>Regards >>>>Jonas >>> >>> >>>in principle you are right. but i´m tired of some people who has only in mind to >>>discredit me. none of them have done good things for the community. they only >>>can attack persons they don´t like and vice versa. >>> >>>have you seen what happened with enrique in the css-forum. he was attacked again >>>and again because his cadaques tournament. >>> >>>do you think it is nice to be badly attacked only because you do MUCH work for >>>others and give as much information as possible? >>> >>>that´s why i´m harsh to those people. >>> >>>marcus >> >>If people try to discredit you in a way that is only destructive, then offcause >>i understand why you get upset, and when i say personal attack those destructive >>posts are part of that, and the destructive nature, that people with >>nothing postive to say, bring to this forum. What i do not understand is the >>tone in which this is disgarded, a simple "that's your opinion" will do in most >>cases, because i am sure that whenever such posts are made, the nonsense speaks >>for itself it is only personal when you make it personal, this is offcause my >>opinion and the way i see things i am not trying to speak for everyone here when >>i say that the polite way of handling critique would be rather optimal in the >>sense that when you dont take it personal then the nonsense will stop 'cause it >>ain't no fun anymore, the response most of these people want is outrage, and >>instead of an exchange of opinions they want to argue due to a lack of >>excitement in their lives it's sad, but true. >> >>Regards >>Jonas > >I agree with Jonas. Life is not fair :) > >We need to learn how to be courageous and cope with the aggressive world today. >In other words, we can do nothing about them. If you don't like cruel posts, >just simply ignore them. > >Eran Life is a great invention, but still full of bug's :-) and as people we need a lot more beta testing before we can call it perfect, but unfair... i never said that :-) If we all clean up the space around us, it is not mine or your job to learn to live in other peoples **** :-) it has to start somewhere, why not start with youself, and speaking in general this includes me aswell. Regards Jonas
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