Author: Chris Whittington
Date: 05:10:13 11/09/97
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On November 08, 1997 at 19:12:22, Thorsten Czub wrote: >Thanks Bruce for your explaining words. > >The reason I mentioned this case was NOT so much the content of the >story. >The point was: I wanted to show that sometimes , or hopefully always in >a discussion you open yourself to be honest to honor the opponent, no >matter if you like him or hate him. > >Pretending a conflict a priori is not a CHANCE FOR the conflict but >AGAINST it. > >This was the point I wanted to explain or refer. > >I know many marriages of my friends where the main problem is not the >problem, but the fact that the husband denies that there is a problem !! > >Sometimes when you try to calm down the conflict here (in a discussion >between ICCA and critics), I have the feeling that this is the same >thing that happens in all the marriages of my friends, whenever the wife >tries to focus the problem (e.g. when he had his orgasm but not her and >she tries to explain him somehow that they should change something and >he thinks this is AN ATTACK AGAINST THE SIZE OF HIS "lovemaker"). >So he tries better not to speak about it ! >And she tries to make it right for him. So they don't talk about it. >Until they are divorced. And then she tells him: I had never an orgasm ! >And he is very confused and says: > >Why did you never told me about... I thought you always ... > >And therefore the civilized societies have developed a discussion BRUCE >! >To help the husband and his wife BEFORE they are in a divorce. > >Did you get the point or will you now explain me that you don't have >problems with your wife and orgasms... > >or will you this time understand my point ? I don't understand this one, Thorsten. I don't think I ever tried to give Bruce an orgasm :) Was that my mistake ? :) Chris Whittington >How shall I explain you - in which language ??
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