Author: Eran
Date: 10:49:29 04/11/01
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On April 11, 2001 at 13:05:44, Jonas Cohonas wrote: >On April 11, 2001 at 12:22:31, Marcus Kaestner wrote: > >>> >>>What ever happened to common courtesy, why is it so hard for some people here in >>>this forum to speak to eachother in a proper and friendly fashion, would it kill >>>you to be nice?? I for one are getteng tired of personal attack after personal >>>attack, what is there to be taken personally, this is a message board!! >>>for crying out loud. >>>I enjoy this forum and come here every day, but whenever i see these attacks >>>i shake my head and hope for better times, and when the subject does not tell me >>>that this is one of those threads, then i can't just not read it! >>> >>> >>>Regards >>>Jonas >> >> >>in principle you are right. but i´m tired of some people who has only in mind to >>discredit me. none of them have done good things for the community. they only >>can attack persons they don´t like and vice versa. >> >>have you seen what happened with enrique in the css-forum. he was attacked again >>and again because his cadaques tournament. >> >>do you think it is nice to be badly attacked only because you do MUCH work for >>others and give as much information as possible? >> >>that´s why i´m harsh to those people. >> >>marcus > >If people try to discredit you in a way that is only destructive, then offcause >i understand why you get upset, and when i say personal attack those destructive >posts are part of that, and the destructive nature, that people with >nothing postive to say, bring to this forum. What i do not understand is the >tone in which this is disgarded, a simple "that's your opinion" will do in most >cases, because i am sure that whenever such posts are made, the nonsense speaks >for itself it is only personal when you make it personal, this is offcause my >opinion and the way i see things i am not trying to speak for everyone here when >i say that the polite way of handling critique would be rather optimal in the >sense that when you dont take it personal then the nonsense will stop 'cause it >ain't no fun anymore, the response most of these people want is outrage, and >instead of an exchange of opinions they want to argue due to a lack of >excitement in their lives it's sad, but true. > >Regards >Jonas I agree with Jonas. Life is not fair :) We need to learn how to be courageous and cope with the aggressive world today. In other words, we can do nothing about them. If you don't like cruel posts, just simply ignore them. Eran
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