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Subject: Re: Common courtesy..... and where did it go?

Author: Marcus Kaestner

Date: 10:56:31 04/11/01

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>If people try to discredit you in a way that is only destructive, then offcause
>i understand why you get upset, and when i say personal attack those destructive
>posts are part of that, and the destructive nature, that people with
>nothing postive to say, bring to this forum. What i do not understand is the
>tone in which this is disgarded, a simple "that's your opinion" will do in most
>cases, because i am sure that whenever such posts are made, the nonsense speaks
>for itself it is only personal when you make it personal, this is offcause my
>opinion and the way i see things i am not trying to speak for everyone here when
>i say that the polite way of handling critique would be rather optimal in the
>sense that when you dont take it personal then the nonsense will stop 'cause it
>ain't no fun anymore, the response most of these people want is outrage, and
>instead of an exchange of opinions they want to argue due to a lack of
>excitement in their lives it's sad, but true.
>
>Regards
>Jonas


wise words. thank you for that.
of course you are right.
i know i´m too hot tempered often.
note: i ALWAYS have an open ear for constructive crics, but you can´t imagine
how tired i am of these destructive guys. the reason is that i´m working now
about 2 years for the chessbits magazine and i´m spending ALL my spare time for
that. only for giving good information others don´t have. i have no problem with
people who does not like my work or my style of writing. no problem at all.

but i have a problem with these destructive haters. see: you spend your spare
time and there are guys which are drawing all what you do into the mud. not
funny.

anyway, sorry for being too hot tempered. i´m working for a better coolness ;-)

regards
marcus



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