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Subject: Re: I can't believe this.....etc. MODERATION, why is this allowed?

Author: Djordje Vidanovic

Date: 09:12:58 11/02/00

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On November 02, 2000 at 05:26:59, Tony Werten wrote:

>On November 01, 2000 at 21:30:12, Bruce Moreland wrote:
>
>>On November 01, 2000 at 18:09:30, Thorsten Czub wrote:
>>
>>>On November 01, 2000 at 17:54:26, Bruce Moreland wrote:
>>>>Please correct me if I am wrong, but I doubt that you use those words around
>>>>groups of children, or around groups of conservative older people.
>>>
>>>the s-word is used by children and by older people. its a fill-word here.
>>>if something happens that is unwished and unpleasant, almost anybody who
>>>is <=50 uses it.
>>>
>>>of course older people say: "verdammt" , or "sch.... eibenkleister".
>>>
>>>but the average german here in my area (ruhrgebiet) says it.
>>>
>>>> If you do
>>>>use them around such groups, I would be surprised if this doesn't bother
>>>>someone.
>>>
>>>sorry for using it. i see it was wrong.
>>>
>>>>bruce
>>
>>It is an interesting issue.  This particular word was the strongest word my
>>father used when I was a kid, and he used it casually, but if I had used it in
>>front my parents, I would have suffered dire punishment.  I use those words and
>>more serious ones around my kids, but not casually.  My seven year-old knows
>>about all of these words, but he has never used them in front of me.  I would
>>tell him that I don't care if he uses those words as long as he is capable of
>>not sounding like an idiot.
>>
>>These words are all very commonly heard if you go outside and stand on a street
>>corner.  And many of the people who say them will say them in front of my kids,
>>although not *to* my kids.
>>
>>Perhaps there is some cultural difference, and that could explain it.
>
>Probabely. In Holland, shit isn't considered a real curse, but more as an
>expression of "oh well, too bad"
>
>Tony
>
>>
>>I think that in this country, some people would be aghast if you used those
>>words in front of a kid, and some would tolerate their kids using them in
>>everyday conversation in the house.  The attitude regarding that kind of speech
>>is not completely uniform.
>>
>>bruce

If you try to bluff your way through a hopeless position, especially when
playing blitz, people might call that "bullshitting".   A very similar
expression exists in the Serbian language :)

***  Djordje



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